Imagine standing at the edge of a dense forest. There is a path before you that forks into two. One trail leads into a sunlit clearing, the other winds deeper into the shadowy woods. This moment, ripe with possibility, symbolizes the essence of our discussion.
Do you believe in free will or destiny?

The decision to take one path over the other could be seen as a manifestation of free will. It is a moment of choice where you are the master of your destiny. Yet, some might argue that your choice was always meant to be.
This story serves as a metaphor for the intriguing debate that has puzzled humanity for centuries. Are our lives the result of personal choices, or are there cosmic powers that have set a preordained path for us?
Free Will vs Destiny
Imagine you’re playing a video game like GTA San Andreas (I am showing my age here – that’s the last game I played), where you get to make choices for the main character, CJ. You can choose to send him on daring missions, messing up with gangs or police officers or you can decide to keep him safe, avoiding trouble by staying at home in Grove Street.
Free will is quite similar to this. It’s about having the autonomy to make your own decisions in life. You choose your college, you choose which city to settle in, and anything else. It’s like you’re holding the controller, and the choices you make can lead you down different paths.
However, some people think that our choices aren’t entirely in our hands. These individuals are known as determinists. They believe that factors beyond our control influence our decisions.
They believe everything that happens is like a row of dominoes that started falling a long time ago. So, if you decided to attend the University of Paris instead of the University of Mumbai, they would argue it was due to a chain of events beyond your control
They think that everything, including what we do, is already set up by past events. The basic rules of the universe, govern our lives and our choices are just part of a big chain reaction.
Many famous thinkers have shared their ideas about this topic. Jean-Paul Sartre once said, “We are condemned to be free,” meaning that it can feel heavy to make choices all the time, but it’s also what makes life special because we get to choose our paths in a world that doesn’t seem to care much either way.
On the other hand, determinists like Baruch Spinoza argue that everything follows natural laws, and thus our sense of free will is an illusion.
So, when we talk about free will, we’re really asking if we’re the ones making choices or if all our choices are just the result of events that have already happened.
Free Will vs Destiny: The Cosmic Script
Destiny suggests there is a predetermined course that our lives are meant to follow. There is a cosmic script written by the universe, God, or some other metaphysical force. Let me simplify it a little.
Imagine a student named Alex, who always struggled in school, especially with subjects like math and science. One day, due to a scheduling mix-up, Alex finds himself in a photography class. Photography is a subject that he had never considered or explored before.
Initially, he is frustrated and sees this as another potential failure waiting to happen. However, as the weeks go by, something unexpected unfolds.

Alex discovers a profound passion and an incredible talent for photography. He wins competitions, earns scholarships, and eventually travels the world, capturing stories through the lens of his camera.
Some would say Alex was destined to find photography, that it was written in the stars for him to become a renowned photographer. His was a preordained path, guided by a force beyond mere choice or free will.
Broadly, this concept is called Determinism. It is a passive idea that says that no matter what path you choose, the endpoint is fixed. No matter what choices you make, you will end up where you’re supposed to be, according to the universal script.
Believing in fate or destiny can make the world seem less random. It’s comforting to think that there’s a reason we meet certain people or face challenges. It suggests that there’s a hidden purpose to life’s ups and downs and that our lives might be part of a bigger picture we can’t fully see yet. It’s a way of finding meaning in the journey.
Perspectives and Paradoxes
The debate impacts our view of personal responsibility. If free will is real, we’re accountable for our actions. But if destiny governs us, the foundation of personal responsibility weakens.
Many find a middle ground in the concept of compatibilism. This is where things get interesting and kind of complicated as well. Compatibilism suggests that free will and destiny can coexist. This viewpoint reconciles the idea of a destined direction with the autonomy of individual actions.
Famous athletes or musicians often say they’ve always felt drawn to their sport or instrument as if it were their destiny. But they also talk about the 10000 hours of practice, the sacrifices, and the choices they made to get where they are. So, their success is both a part of their destiny and the result of their free will to work hard.
Conclusion
We are the authors of our stories, armed with the power of choice. Yet, instances of serendipity suggest that destiny also plays a role. After all, some moments seem just too perfect or too strange to be just coincidence.
Serena Williams picked up a tennis racket when she was young and worked hard to become one of the greatest athletes of all time. Steve Jobs had a vision for changing the world through technology, creating Apple in a garage. Both faced tons of challenges and made countless choices that led them to their legendary successes. But you could also say there was something special about their journeys that seemed destined.
Finally, the key question is how you see yourself in this dynamic. Are you more of a “make your own destiny” kind of person, or do you believe that some things are just written in stars? How do these ideas shape the way you see your future and make decisions?
So, what’s your take? Are you writing your own story, or do you feel like there’s a bigger plan guiding you? How do you think this affects your life and the way you dream about your future?
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